Self Importance Reveals Your Own Business Ethics and Unimportance

How many times have you attended a business
networking event and observed the following:1. Would anyone want to do business with a CPA,
- People talking on the cell phones when someone isattorney, dentist or real estate agent who cannot give
speaking from the podium?her or his focus for at least 30 minutes?
- People texting on their Blackberries or Treos or2. Would I be confident in referring one of these
PDAs responding to text messages or emails?individuals?
- People with wireless Bluetooth ear pieces or similarOur behaviors demonstrate to the outside world as to
devices?our internal attitudes and the beliefs that drive those
- People talking on the cell phones in the lobby andattitudes. Sometimes, individuals forget that the rest of
letting everyone know that they are talking on thethe world is watching from an entirely different
phone?perspective.
What does this really tell you about these individuals?If we look back 10, 20 and 50 years ago, was this
First, they have a lot self importance. Second, they aretype of behavior prevalent. For the most part, no
rude and clearly do not have positive business ethics.because the excuse of technology was not available
Third, they are truly people I probably do not want toand people in general were far more polite and
do business with given their observed behaviors.respectful. Men took off their hats when the flag
During a recent luncheon honoring some local andpassed or when entering a building and always in a
dedicated business leaders, I watched at my table (6restaurant. Women also were more respectful in the
men and 3 women and none being physicians) five ofmarketplace from their dress to their own behaviors.
the men busy replying on their PDAs. One gentlemanBusiness ethics is the sum total of your behaviors and
actually did leave the table and went outside to take ahow you respond in public regardless if public means
call. My thought as I looked at all of this activity is thatyour place of work or public means a business
"No one unless you are the President of the Unitedluncheon. As some would say, leave your ego with all
States or a physician on call, is that important!"of your own self importance at the door for you never
As I continued to watch this type of self importanceknow who is watching.
behavior, I began to have these two thoughts: